They say virgins are safe... but no one talks about the war happening behind closed doors.

…where your own hands become the enemy.

My “2 Cents” About Masturbation

And yeah - Let’s stop acting surprised.

Both guys and girls do it.

The debate over who does it more is a noisy distraction.

The real issue?

What it’s doing to your mind, your future, your sex life… and your soul.

Let’s start with the raw truth:

Masturbation = Solo Sex.

No sugarcoating it.

For guys — it’s the hand.

For ladies — the clitoris, or objects that resemble what their minds crave:

Bananas. Candles. Bottles. Sticks. Dildos.

It starts simple.

A random urge.

A romantic scene.

An innocent wetness.

A hard morning.

A shape you can’t unsee.

And just like that, your hands take over.

But here’s the dark, unspoken truth:

Masturbation doesn’t just give you release.

It reprograms you.

And the cost?

Bigger than you think.

Let’s go even deeper:

1. You’re not doing it alone.

You’re doing it with the image of someone else in your mind.

An ex. A celebrity. A classmate. A married man.

It’s not innocent.

It’s mental sex.

That’s mental fornication.

You just slept with someone — in your mind.

2. Objects don’t love you.

You’re inserting things that were never meant to be inside you.

Not only can it tear your hymen (yes, that’s “technical” virginity gone)...

You also risk infections that could make childbirth a future nightmare.

Try explaining to your husband that you were a “virgin”…

but had a secret affair with a cucumber. (WTF)!!!

3. You kill your future pleasure.

Here’s the terrifying science:

The more you train your body to climax a certain way…

…the more your body REJECTS anything else.

So what happens?

You get married…

Your husband touches you…

And your body says: “This isn’t what we’re used to.”

And then you fake it.

Or worse — stop wanting sex altogether.

You become a frustrated wife…

who secretly dreams of something longer, harder, deeper because that’s what your objects trained you for.

4. You break your manhood (before she even gets to taste it).

Masturbation trains your body for speed, not intimacy.

You become a one-minute man.

You release quickly, leaving her dry, angry, and untouched.

She becomes frigid.

You feel rejected.

The marriage becomes sexless.

Then the cheating starts.

All because of your old habit.

Self-control now = full control later.

5. Or you swing the other way.

Delayed ejaculation.

You keep thrusting for hours, and nothing happens.

She’s sore.

You’re confused.

No orgasm. No baby. Just pain.

Rough hands taught you pleasure in a twisted way.

Infact - This is the WORST SCENARIO.

Sex in the dream.

Feeling drained.

Craving the real thing.

Seeing women (or men) as sex tools.

Becoming sexually broken before you even start.

You see now?

This is not “just a phase.”

It’s not “just an urge.”

It’s programming.

Wiring your future frustrations with each “private moment.”

So, What’s The Way Out?

Not willpower. Not shame. Not guilt.

But awareness — followed by action:

Clean Your Mind And Transmute Your Energy:⚡

Start something that makes you feel alive.

That same burning desire can write a book, launch a business, build a brand.

Listen…

Masturbation isn’t just wrong.

It’s demonic. Deceptive. Destructive.

If you’re caught in it, run.

Not tomorrow. Not next week.

RUN NOW.

Your future self, your future spouse and your future children are begging you.

Next?

Consult Your Bedroom Therapist To Fix You Up Once More.

God bless you.

Cleo.