Your worst enemy…

“No man should eat at the table where love, respect, and loyalty aren't served.” ~ Unknown

This is one of my favorite quotes, I heard it when I was younger and the older I get the more revelations it brings. 

Desiring to be a man of high status that attracts supermodel-level women doesn’t make you unique…

Having the qualities, habits, and lifestyle of a high-status man does. 

You can achieve this easily.

It all comes down to the quality of your friend group. 

You may have heard that where you’ll be in 10 years is determined by your 5 closest friends. 

So why are 3 out of 5 of them only your friends because they’re “funny”?

When you see a group of guys in public and 4 of them are fat, ungroomed, and smelly. 

Even if the fifth guy is Matt Damond, he’s clumped in with the rest of the group. 

Subsequently, his value is brought down dramatically. 

I Challenge YOU:

Take inventory of the 5 closest people to you, and run them through this short checklist.

• Does this person ADD to your life in a meaningful way? (This excludes humor or things that bring you down like being the plug etc.)

• Does this person bring you down to elevate themselves? (Commonly referred to as “Snakes”, these are the ones that will get with your ex)

• If you both got arrested do you have ANY doubt that this person would roll/rat you out? (Hopefully, you’re not doing anything illegal, this is a loyalty test)

• Does this person's life reflect what you want yours to look like?

If you answered yes to any of these 4 questions for anyone in your group, it’s time to do some serious reflection and decide if you need to cut them out of your life. 

If you come to the conclusion that you do, be warned…

It WILL be awkward, they may take it the wrong way, and they may resent you for it. 

At the end of the day, you have to look out for your best interest. And the people that you started with aren’t always the people you finish with. 

If you REALLY want to live your dream life, you will have to make hard decisions. 

I hope you do it sooner rather than later.

Always the best, 

Cleopatra

PS.

Feel free to add to the checklist above with your qualifying questions. 

I would love to read them also! Feel free to send them in, I’ll be on my laptop all day today!