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She will never forget this 30-second conversation
He made her sweat…
It doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt, if you don't open your mouth you will never get anywhere with women.
I have a perfect example from one of my readers who sent me his story recently:
His name is George.
He is the kinda guy who 100% waits for Indicators of Interest (IOIs) before making a move. Usually, this is the correct move but not always the case.
He was at a large bar venue (big reggae fest) waiting out front for his Uber ride.
As he was waiting another car pulled up (also an Uber) and a blonde was getting out of the back seat and unloading some things on the curb.
She had a bag that said "Boston College". It turned out that this was George’s school he went up to.
Now this woman was not paying any attention to him or giving him IOIs and right then and there he had a choice:
1) Saying nothing and quietly waiting for his ride
2) Making a comment about the Boston college bag and see what happens
George chose #2 and he chatted for about 30 seconds as she continued to take things out of her Uber.
In the end, he said, "I am here waiting for my Uber to pick me up and here it is."
She said, "Oh, you are leaving?" She sounded disappointed he was leaving.
He did not close the deal since she wasn't that attractive anyway (maybe a 6 out of 10). But his point?
Although it only lasted about 30 to 45 seconds, he had a positive exchange with a female who was not giving him IOIs and he probably could have closed the deal.
"When in doubt, open your mouth!"
Most people are very friendly. And if you try to talk to them, they will usually respond positively.
Hot girls are no different.
If you are an idiot and say something stupid, you might get blown off.
But if you have some common sense and are friendly, the girls will almost always respond positively.
You don't have to be clever. Just say something simple, and see what happens.
Like George says...
"It doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt, if you don't open your mouth you will never get anywhere with women."
- Cleopatra
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