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The secret to a long-lasting relationship… (Not what you think)
How can you keep things great for years and even decades?
You finally did it. You secured a beautiful woman who has qualities that you see a future with.
Now that the two of you are committed to each other – you want to make it last. You’re not in it for the short term.
What it took to get her to submit to you – isn’t what will make things last long-term. You’re not prepared for this.
How can you keep things great for years and even decades?
Let’s Break This Down
The secret to a long-lasting HEALTHY relationship is simple.
You must be together, equally yolked with your partner.
Yes, this is a loaded question that has multiple correct answers but the simplified answer is above.
When you make big life decisions – you have to do it together.
To keep the relationship healthy (dates, intimacy, etc.) – you have to do it together.
When you’re mad at each other and need to fix things…
Yup, you got it,
YOU HAVE TO DO IT TOGETHER.
This is why choosing the right partner is SO important. Relationships fall apart when there isn’t an equal give and take.
If you’re sure that you’ve chosen correctly try this;
Make it clear that you’re now life partners. LIFE. You’re both there for the other person, not to tear down but to build up.
In the beginning, it’s important to lay down the ground rules to facilitate a partnership. Not a dictatorship.
A strong foundation will save you when things inevitably get rocky, you got this.
Always the best,
Cleopatra
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