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Why you need boundaries (Quit being WEAK)

She will try to blow your house down…

By now you’ve heard the story of “The Big Bad Wolf”. The wolf comes and he huffs and puffs and blows the house down of 2 of the pigs. 

But, the 3rd pig builds his house out of brick and mortar, so that the wolf cannot blow it down. 

You need to be the 3rd pig. 

Women are like children in one way, they WILL test you. How much can she take from you and push your boundaries before you put her in her place?

If there is nothing out of bounds for her then she will lose interest, FAST

She will try to blow your house down…

Set clear and concise boundaries and expectations at the beginning of the relationship. 

  • What you expect from her. 

  • Where you want the relationship to go. 

  • Etc.

Once she gets close to one of those boundaries – or crosses one completely, LET HER KNOW.

Don’t be a simp by not letting her have any repercussions. Or worse, not say anything at all. 

The first time you do this she will not enjoy it, saying you’re overreacting and throwing a fit (like a child…). It’s important that you stand your ground. 

When you do, it shows you know how you want to be treated and how you want your lady to act.

She LOVES when a man has standards and will fall deeply in love with you. 

If she runs away or doesn’t respect your boundaries – cut her off. It is better to lose a low-value woman than it is to lose yourself. 

Always the best, 

Cleopatra

P.S.

Struggle to stand up for yourself? This is a masculine trait that you MUST have. 

Truly masculine men stand up for not only themselves but for others and what they believe in as well. 

AKA, if you don’t have this quality you won’t attract the top-tier women you want. Instead, you’ll leave them for the real men to marry…

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