My Girlfriend Asked About My Body Count 🌹

(Sipping my whiskey, breathes softly and goes…)

Good morning.

So, here we go again.

This time - This question is from Bryan.

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When a girl asks about one's body count (past relationships), how does one respond.?

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Such a good question yunno.

Now, let cut to the chase - As a guy, when a girl asks about your body counts…

Maybe trying to figure out the dude she's about to do things with…

Or maybe, she's asking to know you better…

Let me tell you something right here.

When it gets to a point a lady asks you about your body counts - that's an intimate questions…

Meaning? She's testing you and trying to know if you're just another JERK or just a crazy guy who can explore her sexual fantasies more.

Look. There 2 beliefs around this.

But before I get into it. Hold on.

(Reach out to my whiskey again. Take a sip. Take another. And another. And Baam! This tastes so good)

Let me start with the first.

✅ Ladies judge the value of their man by how much women wants him for themselves.

Better remember that.

So if she goes - “Hey, what do you say about your body count”

What she's secretly trying to know is this…

“How many bitches are willing to fxck with you again and again.”?

“Are you that good with handling a woman's body and satisfying her inner desires”?

“Can you still commit to me when I'm no match for you in bed”?

“How bad are you in the street”?

Hence, why more women are willing to go in with you.

Now, this is what I call “SHIT TEST”.

Trying to test your WORTH and at the same time trying to JUDGE you based on your reaction and answer to this question.

Is this making sense at all?

So, before I give you my final answer to your question, BRYAN.

Here's the second thing to know.

✅ Most Ladies Go For Fun In The Short Runs But Go For Commitment In The Long Run.

Now, let me explain that - because I clearly know you don't understand it.

You see, Most women wants the fun, the party, the huge taste, the exploring and many other wierd experiences with guys…

But at same time, they clearly understands that those things don't keep a man.

And if she goes “ Hey, do you having a conversation around body count - I'm tight curious to share your experience”

Holla, this girl is trying to know if you're a jerk who's committed to fun, fun, fun an rarely even commits to a lady.

Because, ONCE A JERK - ALWAYS A JERK.

ONCE A WORE - ALWAYS A WORE.

Cry all you want - that's just the big ass damn truth for her.

At this point let's get back to BRYAN QUESTION and I'll straight up tell you how I'd respond to that.

Here's it again:

When a girl asks about one's body count (past relationships), how does one respond?

So here's one I would say - “NEVER REVEAL YOUR BODY COUNT TO LADIES EASILY” even though you've got none (which I support - because, you can't keep walking around fxcking bitches. You've got to be straight)

That said, here's how I'd respond even if she's my girl or just a random curious girl.

Me: “Hey, that's a solid question babe. Well – let’s just say… I’ve lived, I’ve loved, and I’ve learned.”

(Slight pause. I smile. Let the air hang.)

Or keep it beneficial like this.

Me: “But here’s the real deal – I don’t count bodies. I count experiences. And every one of ‘em has taught me something about what not to waste time on… and what’s truly worth keeping.”

Or keep it straight like this.

Me: “If you’re asking because you wanna judge me – save it.

But if you’re asking because you’re curious what kind of man I am behind closed doors…Then maybe you should stop asking, and come find out.

Now this is how I'd respond to her.

This way, YOU passed her SHIT TEST….

Nothing to hold on you and nothing to HARSHLY JUDGE you with.

All's good and life's beautiful.

Question answered. Tell me if this helps and don't forget to send me my roses if you find this valuable 🌹🌺🌹

(Another sip of whiskey)

Ps: Remember, when my daughter turns TWO, I'm gonna let her know the first 5 valuable people I owe my deepest respect to.

Will that be you?

Are you among the first 5?

Let's see here. Text So Good - That My Baby Can't Forget You At All

(Takes the final sip of whiskey)

See ya.

Cleo.