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Why Men Lose Girls
And exactly what to do instead
The number one reason that guys lose their girlfriends is that they CHANGE.
They attract her with one personality...
And then, once they have her, they change and become SOMEONE ELSE.
So...
You attract and get her by presenting yourself as fun and adventurous.
And then after you get her, you spend most of your time sitting on the couch watching Netflix.
Or you attract her by being a bit wild and unpredictable.
And then after you get her, you become safe and boring.
Or you attract her by presenting yourself as confident, secure, and alpha.
And then after you get her, you become jealous and insecure every time she looks at another guy.
You change.
She leaves.
If you attract her with one personality, then you need to maintain that personality in order to keep her.
Because that personality is what attracted her to you.
And that personality is what will keep her attracted to you.
Most guys screw this up.
They think that once a girl is "got" then she is "got" and that's that.
And NOW they can do whatever they want... be lazy... just be themselves.
Big mistake!
Believe it or not, getting the girl of your dreams is the EASY part.
Keeping her is the HARD part.
All the best,
Cleopatra
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