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It's A Shame To Say "I Love You" Without...
Infact, I wish I said this earlier.
Relationships aren’t extremely hard at all.
They’re just built on simple things we keep avoiding. (This is not a typo)
Infact - it's truly a shame when someone says they want to buy something for their partner but doesn't know what they will like.
Mutual connection and intimacy is in the details. You must remember this.
Not everyone wants gifts.
some people want forehead kisses.
some want back rubs when the lights are off.
some want to sit in silence with someone who won’t flinch at their tears.
and it hurts when someone says they love you - but doesn’t know what kind of snack you grab when you’re stressed.
or what part of your body aches for gentler touch.
or what kind of words make you feel like home.
Listen - it’s not just about communication.
it’s about the kind of conversation that builds obsession.
the kind that makes someone miss you like forever.
the kind that turns talking into touching - even from a distance.
Double down and improve the connection and intimacy you have with your partner or even with your girl you're currently dating by asking right questions like…
>>> what part of you do you wish someone would study without rushing?
>>> how do you want to be loved?
>>> how do you want to be touched when the world has been cruel?
>>> what's that one things that makes you obsessed over me?
>>> what new things do you wish to try out soon?
>>> what are the things you've recently changed your mind about?
Bro, don’t be scared of the raw questions.
don’t act shy around the things that could save you.
because I’ve seen it too many times…
two good people. beautiful. loyal. full of potential.
but scared to ask bold, weird, healing questions through out their entire conversations whether in text, calls or even one on one talks.
And this furthers fades into…
✅ No obsession again between them anymore.
✅ Deep romantic and satisfiable connections turns into something very awkward.
✅ No mutual understanding again which will also open them up to seeking for someone better who drives their spark than their partners.
And many more.
Wait - can you relate to this?
And to be honest - you don’t need more dates.
you don’t need more fancy dinner nights.
you don’t need more romantic advice from people who don’t even like their partner anymore.
You just need better language.
The kind that wraps around the heart and stays there.
The kind that opens up true intimacy and deep understanding between two people.
As if their relationship depends on it - and yes it does.
You see, you don’t lose love and obsession by accident.
you lose it when you go quiet about what matters.
And let me say this:
It's brutally sad when two good people meet each other and screw up the relationship just because they're scared to ask bold direct questions.
Now, go and ask your partner before I get mad at you.
But don't make the mistake of doing so without going through what I've designed to HELP you today, tomorrow and many decades from now.
Ps: Screenshot this and send to all brothers - let's save good relationships together.
Talk soon
Cleo
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