I Don't Know If My Husband Loves Me Anymore - What Do I Do?

“Good morning Cleo, Thank you for all you do for our men, but as a Lady, I don't know if my husband loves me anymore - I still love my husband, but I don't know if he sees me the same way… what do I do?”

Good morning from here too.

Since many of you wants me to answer this question here - then, that's exactly what I'm going to do right now.

Here's my HONEST-TO-GOD Answer

You see, at any point you begin to feel unseen in your relationship…

Even if you're still dating or already in marriage.

I repeat: At any point you begin to feel unseen in your relationship… The ONLY best thing to do is have a mutual COMMUNICATION with your partner.

That's it…

Okay, let me even make it more clearer…

Love doesn’t always disappear - sometimes, it just goes quiet.

Life gets busy. Emotions shift. People change - but not always away from you.

Sometimes, it’s just that the way they express love has changed, or gotten buried under life stress, routines, or silent misunderstandings.

But you’re not crazy for feeling this way.

And you’re not weak for still loving him.

Here’s what I want you to do - not trying to force love, but to open the space for it to breathe again:

✅ Tune In And Ask Him With Softness.

Try something like,

“Hey love… I’ve been feeling a bit distant from you lately. I just want to know - how are you really feeling about us these days?”

Open. Vulnerable. No defense.

Again listen, just listen to him. Love sometimes hides behind unspoken frustration or silent needs.

It happens a lot of times.

And the answer to your question will be seen in the way he RESPONDS and REACTS towards you after you might have asked.

No one on earth is too busy for AFFECTIONATE LOVE.

Not me. Not you. Not anyone at all.

It's either they're into you or they're into someone else.

And I must say this too…

Sometimes, when we feel unloved or unseen, it’s not just their love that’s missing…

it’s our own self-connection that’s gone dim.

Bring your sparkle back - not just for him, but for YOU. The woman he fell in love with is still in there. Wake her gently.

And lastly…

If he still loves you, your question will reignite something.

And If he doesn’t… your courage will set you free to rebuild your joy with or without him.

Either way… You are not hurting at all.

Hope this helps?

I’m rooting for you.

Cleo.