How To Not Be Ghosted After First Date

They are too predictable.

Women do not want soft men who bend to their will immediately.

If she can predict what you’re all about, which shows you being a complete simp for her - It’s GAME OVER.

My social media posts will get a comment from helpless men (and women) saying “just be yourself!”.

This is terrible advice, unless you are calm and mysterious naturally.

As a man, you can’t expose your true self and feelings early on.

You have to hold back emotionally.

Your guard can come down when you’re in an actual relationship and she’s invested in you. 

By then, you’ll be calmer and there’s a good chance your simp tendencies will be gone.

The beginning (1-10 dates) is crucial.

Stay mindful of what you say in person and by text.
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​It comes down to not being sticky, showing desperation, and texting 10 messages at once.
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Let’s say you have a great time on a first date.
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Do not text:

“Hey I had a really great time. Looking forward to our next date :) I already picked out the place! Btw, you never told me what your favorite kind of food is. What is it?!”
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This is weird.
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Just text something like:

“Hey I had a good time last night. Have a good day at work.”

That’s it, make it simple.

You’re not needy and emotional about it.

Now, it’s time for her move on a chessboard to show interest in you.

Deep down, I know you want to show your admiration for her. 

You’re excited and you feel like you finally met your second part of yin and yang. 

Maybe you shared an intimate moment during the date, or had great conversation.
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But, don’t get comfortable - things can change in a snap of a finger.
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Stay calm and slowly show your true self.

All the best,

Cleopatra