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How I Screwed Myself Again🌹
Brother - Pick your lessons
Bro, I went in for the experience again this week.
But this time - I messed things up…
That was quite intentional though. (Hahaha)
Plus, I’ll never forget this moment - So pick your lessons.
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I was at this dinner with a few of my guys, and there was this lady across the table.
Beautiful. Smart. Her presence was just... different. (At least I thought so)
So I went in, we talked a little, cracked some jokes, and I could feel the vibe building.
She was feeling it too - I could tell.
Then it happened.
I looked her in the eye and said, “You’re really beautiful.”
And I swear to you… everything shifted.
She smiled politely…
But something died in her eyes.
That moment that felt electric? It vanished.
Why?
Because every random guy has already told her that a hundred times this week.
And that’s when I confirmed again what I wrote inside the “Text So Good She Can't Ignore” mastery book:
“Being real isn’t enough. You have to be rare”.
Immediately I recollected this - I made an instant fix and left with my thoughts in her mind.
But, here’s some rules I keep to myself that changed the game for me and will do the same for you.
âś… RULE 1: Never compliment what every man notices
“You’re beautiful.”
“You’re fine.”
“You’re hot.”
Bro, she’s heard it too many times. It doesn’t even touch her anymore.
But when you say something like:
“You carry yourself like you’ve seen life deeply… and came out stronger.”
She won’t forget it.
Why?
Because you didn’t just notice her face - you noticed her essence.
You bypassed the body and complimented the soul.
And very few men ever go that deep.
âś… RULE 2: Make it personal, not generic
Forget all those copy-paste lines.
Instead, pay attention to her. Her expressions. Her energy. Her vibe.
“The way you smiled just now… that’s dangerous.”
“You’ve got this calm… but I can tell there’s fire behind it.”
That kind of compliment hits different.
She starts thinking:
“This guy actually sees me.”
And when a woman feels seen - really seen, she opens up in ways most men will never experience.
✅ RULE 3: Never overcompliment — drop one and move on
Too many compliments? You look like you’re trying too hard.
And the truth is - it kills the mystery.
We drop one smooth compliment and then shift the convo with power.
“You’re not the loudest in the room… but somehow, everyone’s watching you. I noticed.”
Then boom - move on.
Let the compliment breathe in her mind.
Let her feel your confidence, not your need for validation.
âś… RULE 4: Own your delivery - your energy is the real compliment
Even the best line will fail… if your energy is weak.
If you avoid eye contact, rush your words, or act unsure — you ruin the moment.
But when you speak with calm control?
Eye contact is solid.
Voice steady.
A small, knowing smile.
No pressure. No performance.
Your whole vibe says:
“I’m not here to impress. I’m here to speak to your soul.”
That’s rare energy. And women feel it before they even process your words.
âś… RULE 5: Leave her with a compliment that sticks
When you’re walking away…
Drop a final compliment that lingers long after you’re gone.
“You’re not like most women… but I’m still figuring out if that’s a good thing.”
It’s a perfect blend of confidence and curiosity.
You didn’t kneel.
You sparked thought.
You triggered emotion.
And that’s what makes you unforgettable.
Bro, let’s be honest…
…If all you bring to the table is “You’re fine” energy,
then don’t complain when she forgets your name 10 minutes later.
But if you master this?
If you learn to compliment like a king with clarity, calm, and class.
you’ll start to feel a shift.
Women will lean in.
They’ll open up.
They’ll remember you - not just because of what you said…
But because of how you made them feel.
This is emotional warfare.
And the world needs men who move with calculated strength, not thirsty weakness.
Bro, If you mess this up?
You’ll appear before the Council of Brotherhood and explain why you chose to disgrace mankind.
Let’s do better.
Let’s raise our standard.
Let’s lead the movement.
We don’t simp.
We see deeper.
We leave imprints.
P.S. Got a friend still calling girls “fine blah blah blah” like that’s a personality trait? Forward him this email. Let’s save one brother at a time.
Over 600+ men sniffed out my BEST SELLING book on this topic and it's obvious they're no more weak in this game.
I want to be proud of you too - And this is how I could also help you.
Sniff my “TEXT SO GOOD - SHE CAN'T IGNORE” mastery book now.
It's opened for you today.
See you inside those pages.
Cleo
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