Hard Truths They Never Told Us As Boys🌹

Son...

There are some truths they never told us as boys.

Not because they hated us — but because they didn’t know either.

They handed you phones… condoms… grades… religion…

But they never handed you the map.

The map that explains:

Why that sweet “church girl” turned into a savage at 24.

Why your innocent little daughter starts “acting grown” at 12.

Why your woman keeps changing faces like she’s 5 people in 1 week.

And why you always feel like you’re the one chasing clarity.

Let me walk you through it.

From the top.

Because her game… her entire design...

Starts with this invisible blueprint.

Read carefully from here…

🎯 1. The Imprinting Stage (The First Stage)

Between the ages of 0–7, a little girl becomes a mirror sponge.

She watches… absorbs… and builds her world based on patterns, not truths.

If her dad was absent or soft, she imprints one message:

“Men don’t stay. Men don’t lead.”

If her dad was strong but emotionally unavailable, she imprints:

 “I must earn a man’s love through performance.”

Even the way her mom cried… or dressed… Or even responded to stress…

Became her first scripts.

This is why she doesn’t really know why she’s drawn to what she’s drawn to at all.

But guess what?

Her body remembers.

And unless you understand these early prints - You’ll confuse her triggers for Something else (God be with you)

When really, she’s just reliving the blueprint she never fully consented to.

That’s why you can love her right.

Show her true peace and admirations…

…and she'll still pick fights. (That gender - Lol)

Listen: This is not logic - it's her first stage of growth… don't forget.

Next?

🎯 2. Validation Programming – (Her ego was built on external applause)

From age 8, society starts whispering something else:

“Your value is how others react to you.”

She learns that:

Her beauty is her currency.

Her body curves is her billboard.

Her attention is like a true power men would always kill to have.

And her worth? It’s how wanted she feels.

So when you say “I love you”…

She doesn’t just hear affection.

She hears approval.

Which she craves more than your presence. (Read that again)

Why do you think she posts selfies after arguments?

Why do you think she needs compliments just to feel whole?

And suddenly…

Approval becomes her drug.

Infact - let me even drag this deep…

That “sweet good girl” you met in church?

The one who posts Bible quotes and covers her hot cleavage?

She still craves validation.

She just learned to package it differently.

Because at the root of every woman is a biological mechanism saying:

“If I’m not seen, I’m not safe.”

So she’ll curate.

She’ll perform.

She’ll even suppress her real nature to fit what gets her socially validated.

You’ll think she’s innocent.

But inside, she’s playing a validation game that started before her first bra.

🎯 Stage 3: The “Good Girl Myth” vs Her Biological Design

You’ve been lied to.

And worse?

She’s been lied to too.

They told her that being “a good girl” is what makes her valuable.

They rewarded her when she sat still.

When she kept her legs crossed.

When she didn’t ask questions.

When she was soft, quiet, agreeable.

But here’s what no one told you, son:

There’s a beast buried inside her.

And it doesn't care about Bible verses or society’s gold stars.

It doesn't ask for permission.

It doesn’t wait till marriage.

It doesn’t listen to feminism, or even tradition.

It listens to biology. (Her true design)

Because beneath the surface of her curated IG selfies and girl-next-door smiles…

…lives a primal engine wired for one thing:

Hypergamy.

She’s looking — whether consciously or not — for the most dominant, emotionally intelligent, sexually powerful man in the room.

Not the “nice guy.”

Not the man who obeys her every rules…

Listen - This is what you must not argue with at all…

A woman is not wired to want safety first.

She’s wired to want power first.

More reason why I've always adviced you to Master Bad Guys Trait First - Then, Spice it with your kindness to make her dream of you all day long. (Easy life for you)

Or else - You’ve already lost her.

She might smile at you in public.

But she’s dreaming of someone else in private.

You think she’s your woman because she’s always home?

But bro…

There are women out there whose legs have never opened for a man they loved.

But they’ve exploded for men they couldn’t even explain.

It’s not because she’s a b*tch. (Don't say that)

It’s because NO one is helping her understand her TRUE DESIGN just like I'm teaching you now.

More reasons why you should LEARN this and also save your woman and your daughters from ruining themselves to this.

So now she’s battling her biology with a set of beliefs that don't even belong to her.

And if you — as a man — don’t understand that inner war?

You’ll punish her when she breaks.

You’ll judge her for craving intensity.

You’ll shame her for acting out.

You’ll get jealous of the guy she smiles at too long.

Instead of doing the one thing that changes everything:

Becoming the man that settles her biology and rewires her myth.

Not through control.

But through presence.

Through truth.

Through deep masculine integrity.

She wants to surrender.

But only to a man who’s more powerful than the world she’s afraid of.

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Let me pause here.

Will continue with the next part by tomorrow

But - Before that…

DO YOU TRULY UNDERSTAND WHAT I'VE JUST SHARED WITH YOU TODAY?

Talk to me

Cleo