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Dating Is Not For You
If you're yet to do this.
Hey Eden Apple Members.
Remember when I told you I’d be going all out - just to see if this little game of dating and attraction has truly changed?
Well, just like I said the other day...
“NOTHING HAS CHANGED. AND IT WON’T - NOT NOW, NOT IN 2,000 YEARS.”
So here’s the real question:
Why are some of my guys still struggling with women - after everything I’ve been teaching here?
Before I answer that, let me tell you what happened today.
My Usual Evening Spot.
I was out in the neighborhood, soaking in the calm breeze of the evening. And across the way, I spotted a guy - probably in his late twenties. Clean cut, sharp look, confident presence. No loud energy. Just solid masculine composure.
Then I saw him spot a beautiful blonde lady seated nearby. Clearly their first meeting.
And just like that, I watched the guy glide over, calm and intentional. Within minutes, she was smiling, engaged, and leaning into the conversation like she’d been waiting for him all day.
From my seat, I raised my glass and said to myself:
“Yep. That right there... is the first step”.
But let’s pause the story there.
Let’s talk about you - and why your game might be falling flat.
Here’s the truth:
You Have No Business Dating Any Lady If You're Yet To Take Care Of Yourself.
Let me break that down:
✅ Your health — mental, physical, emotional
✅ Your appearance — grooming, style, presence
✅ Your mindset — clarity, confidence, direction
✅ Your finances — stability, goals, hustle
✅ Your communication — assertive, engaging, magnetic
If you haven’t started leveling up in these areas, dating isn’t your next step.
Self-respect is!!!!
Because when you start working on yourself consistently, something powerful happens:
You stop needing validation.
You stop fearing rejection.
You stop putting women on a pedestal.
And ironically - that’s exactly when they start to notice you.
So ask yourself:
Are you acting like a man who's hard to ignore?
Or just hoping for luck and attention?
You deserve to be treated like a man of value. But that starts with seeing yourself as one. Not tomorrow. Not when you get the girl. Now.
Work on yourself until the idea of rejection feels laughable.
Until you walk into any room and know - you belong.
Read this again. Let it sink in.
Then, hit reply and tell me:
What’s ONE area you’re committed to working on starting now?
Talk soon,
Cleo
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