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This email is a long as f*ck

“THIS IS A LONG READ. BUT WORTH SAVING YOUR LIFE, RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE NOW.”

Remember - You asked for this…

And here you have it…

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If you read the last email.

You saw it for what it was.

• The Trap.

• The Fun Years

• The SMV Curve

• The Illusion of Infinite Attention

• The Power That’s Actually a Countdown

You saw how she’s stuck — right now — in a false season of power, pleasure, and emotional dopamine.

Whether you’re dating her, married to her, or watching her from afar…

You’re witnessing a woman in a loop.

Warning: Let’s make this clear, bro:

What I'm about to teach you should not be misused at all.

And….

This is not about control.

It’s not about changing her.

It’s not about “fixing” women.

But RATHER…

It’s about guiding her through clarity, strength, and vision.

Because the truth is:

She was never meant to lead herself.

So How Do You Lead A Woman Out Of Her Fun-Years Trap?

It starts with understanding what’s really going on inside her:

She’s not just partying for fun.

She’s trying to feel something.

She’s not just obsessed with Instagram.

She’s addicted to attention that makes her feel relevant. (I've explained this before)

She’s not sleeping around because she’s “liberated.”

She’s trying to outrun the voice inside that says she’s not enough without validation.

And all of it?

It’s a spiritual trap disguised as freedom - and that's why the world needs HIGHLY RESPONSIBLE MEN who would lead their beautiful women and daughters from the BROKEN consequences of social femininity…

Hint: I would focus on our DAUGHTERS in my next email as I want to really double down on our women in this email.

Is that cool?

Good.

Moving on…

So how do you pull her out?

Hey - You DON’T.

You don't pull her at all.

You rise — and she follows.

Interesting part:

You can do this even if she's the girl you’re currently dating, or you're already married to her or you're just watching her from afar.

Let’s go:

1. Become What She Can Feel (Not Just See)

No matter where she is in your life — girlfriend, wife, or even a distant muse — you don't win her through words.

You win her through presence.

Because women aren’t moved by logic.

They’re moved by gravity.

Your energy.

Your silence.

Your discipline.

Your BECOMING.

So let’s break this down for exactly where you’re standing:

If you’re DATING her:

Stop trying to impress her.

Stop performing for her approval.

Stop reacting to her chaos.

Instead — go ghost on the validation games.

Become scarce.

Become unavailable to drama.

Let her FEEL your emotional boundaries.

Let her feel that you’re not afraid to walk away.

Let her see that you are a man building a vision — not chasing validation.

Because the moment she FEELS that shift?

She’ll start choosing you with new eyes.

Not because you begged her to change…

…but because your energy DEMANDS it.

Hint: Watch out for my comment at the end of this email.

If you’re MARRIED to her:

This one cuts deeper.

Because she’s seen your flaws.

Your moods.

Your softness.

Your indecision.

She’s lived inside your frame — and maybe, she’s broken it before.

But hear this, bro:

It’s never too late to re-establish your gravity.

Not with more talking.

But with transformation.

Wake up earlier.

Build your body again.

Command your time.

Lead your household like a man with purpose.

Rebuild your frame without announcing it.

Let her feel a new version of you rising quietly from the ashes.

Because when your woman feels your masculine center RE-IGNITE?

She starts to relax into your leadership again — even if she fights it at first.

She doesn’t want to fight you.

She’s just trying to see if you’re strong enough to stay centered.

So stay centered.

And lead anyway.

If you’re just WATCHING her from afar:

Maybe she’s not yours yet.

Maybe she rejected you.

Maybe she’s still caught up in her illusions.

Still… don't chase.

Instead, Evolve.

Make her feel your glow-up without posting it.

Make her wonder why your silence feels so loud.

Make her question the attention she once craved from others…

…because now?

She’s craving YOUR attention — and not getting it.

Why?

Because you’re not the man orbiting anymore.

You’re the one building something real.

And trust me — even if she never comes back?

Your rising will attract a woman ten times her value…(I don't like sounding this way - but I can't hide the truth from you).

Because feminine chaos always seeks masculine calm.

This is how you begin.

No pulling.

Just rising.

And when you rise — she follows.

One way or another.

Next?

2. Stop Feeding the Trap

Here’s the hard truth:

Most men don’t even know they’re co-creating the very chaos they complain about.

Because every time you…

Like her thirst traps,

Laugh off her bad behavior,

Compete for her attention while she’s entertaining other men...

You're not being romantic bro.

You’re being a sponsor of her delusion.

And the only way out?

Stop feeding the trap.

And this is how.

If you’re DATING her:

You see her games.

Her hot and cold moods.

Her “baddie” phase.

The online attention-seeking hints.

And yet, you keep showing up like a loyal fan.

Stop that RUBBISH.

Your silence will speak louder than your arguments.

Your absence will be louder than your emojis.

Let her feel the shift.

No more double-texting.

No more chasing her while she’s performing for strangers.

No more giving her the attention she hasn't earned.

Because if you don’t teach her your worth now?

She’ll only learn it when she’s lost you.

And by then?

You’ll be so elevated — you won’t want her back.

And…

If you’re MARRIED to her:

This one’s even subtler.

She posts for attention.

Dresses for strangers.

Engages emotionally with the outside world more than her home.

And you say nothing.

You “support her confidence.”

No, brother.

You’re feeding the trap.

You’ve become the passive husband while the world seduces your woman.

And I get it — you don’t want to sound controlling.

But leadership isn’t control.

It’s clarity.

So be clear:

You do not reward disrespect.

You do not praise vanity.

You do not validate behavior that fractures your home.

Not through shouting.

Not through threats.

But through detachment and sacred boundaries.

Pull your attention back.

Let her feel the weight of your masculine energy when it’s gone.

Let her miss your approval.

Let her wonder why the man who once adored her now moves like a king with bigger missions.

Because your energy isn’t cheap.

And your validation isn’t free.

Listen: Whatever you reward gets repeated… (don't ever forget)

Next?

If you’re just WATCHING her from afar:

She’s not yours yet — or maybe she used to be.

You’re watching her feed the gram.

Chase clout.

Run in circles.

And you’re thinking:

“If only I could get her to see me…”

Stop that thought. Right now.

She doesn’t need more fans.

She needs contrast.

So instead of sliding in her DMs?

Become the man she stalks from a distance.

Let her scroll your growth.

Let her see the silence.

Let her wonder why you stopped orbiting.

And when she reaches out?

Don’t rush back in.

You’re not here to validate the trap.

You’re here to expose it.

And sometimes?

The loudest exposure…

…is a man who simply refuses to play the game.

Remember:

You’re not here to scold her.

You’re here to reflect something REAL.

Not with your words — but with your walk.

And the moment she realizes your presence is more grounding than her entire feed?

That’s when she starts leaving the trap.

Not for the ‘gram.

Not for the crowd.

But for you. 🌹❤️🌹

Moving on.

3. Master Timing — The Trap is Seasonal 🌹🌹

Most men panic when she enters the trap.

They argue.

They chase.

They try to “save” her too early.

But here’s the divine truth:

The trap has an expiration date.

And this how you can do that…

If you’re DATING her:

You see her spiraling.

Her attention’s everywhere.

Her soul is nowhere.

You’re tempted to confront her.

To beg her to slow down.

To tell her she’s “losing herself.”

But she won’t hear it now.

Because in her mind?

She’s just “living her best life.”

And if you chase her during this phase…

She’ll resent you for disrupting the fantasy.

So don’t.

Instead — be still and rise.

Let time discipline her.

Let burnout wake her.

Let the mirror speak when the filters fade.

And when the season ends?

Be the calm after her storm.

Don’t say, “I told you so.”

Say nothing.

Just be the man she wished she chose before the chaos began.

Because the woman she’s becoming?

She’s going to crave peace more than praise.

And if you’ve mastered the art of holding frames while the world melted her illusion?

She will follow you like a soul returning home.

Now - you can choose to take her back or not (Of course, you're an adult and you know what's best for you)

And…

If you’re MARRIED to her:

It’s hard. Infact, It's obviously funny married women.still do these (hahaha)

You see the shift.

She used to glow for you — now she glows for clicks.

She used to care for the home — now she’s chasing trends.

You feel like you’re losing her to a culture that hates men and family.

But hear this:

This too, is a season.

And while you don’t tolerate disrespect —

You also don’t chase her into the abyss.

Instead…

Build your house.

Build your discipline.

Build your structure.

Build your masculine gravity like a man building an ark before the flood.

Because the rain will come.

The glam will fade.

The chaos will get too loud.

And when it does?

She’ll need a MAN, not a memory.

So be the living reminder that she has a kingdom to return to.

One led by a man she underestimated —

…until she saw that the world had nothing better to offer.

And…

If you’re just WATCHING her from afar:

Maybe she was yours.

Maybe you wanted her.

But now she’s too deep in the trap to even see you.

Don’t lose hope.

Because the dopamine doesn’t last.

The streets always call in a bill.

And one day?

She’ll look around…

…and all the noise will feel empty.

That’s when your timing matters most.

Not by re-entering her life with thirst.

But by being the man who never changed his course.

Still grounded.

Still sacred.

Still building.

Because when her soul finally whispers…

“Where is safety?”

“Where is order?”

“Where is a man who didn’t trade his power for her attention?”

She’ll remember you.

Not because you chased her…

…but because you waited with purpose.

That’s what makes you unforgettable.

That’s what makes you masculine.

That’s what makes you… her return point.

Oh my God!!

Are you even getting this at all?

Next?

4. Lead With Questions That Crack The Illusion 🌹❤️🌹

Preaching won’t work.

Lectures will fail.

Criticism? She’ll shut it down before you finish the sentence.

Because she’s not fighting you —

She’s fighting everything beneath her glittering reality.

And the truth?

She doesn’t even realize it yet.

So what do you do?

You don’t attack the illusion.

You plant seeds that break it from within.

You ask the questions that the algorithm can’t.

So…

If you’re DATING her:

She’s glowing online…

…but her eyes are tired in person.

She’s showing skin…

…but hiding the ache.

Don’t attack her.

Don’t demand she “change.”

Don’t shove your logic down her throat.

Instead?

Let your questions do the heavy lifting.

Gently. Calmly. With presence.

Ask her:

“What do you think your soul will need in 10 years?”

“Have you ever met a woman who stayed in this game… and won?”

“What’s the difference between being wanted… and being valued?”

Then wait.

Let the silence stretch.

Let the seed drop.

Let her wrestle with her own reflection.

Because the goal isn’t to “win” the argument.

The goal is to interrupt the spell.

And few things pierce a trance faster than a mirror question she wasn’t ready for.

If you’re MARRIED to her:

You live with her.

You see the performance.

The “I’m fine” she gives others… is falling apart behind your walls.

Don’t mock her confusion.

Don’t debate her choices.

Don’t match her chaos.

Just ask.

With presence.

With softness.

With masculine gravity that holds space.

Try:

“What are you truly craving these days?”

“Are we building something eternal… or just surviving trends?”

“When was the last time you felt peace — like actual peace?”

Let her speak.

Even if she stumbles.

Even if she gets defensive.

Even if she rolls her eyes at first.

Your role isn’t to control her truth —

It’s to lead her to it.

And when she begins to question the world she’s been dancing for?

That’s when the trance starts breaking.

Not because you forced her…

…but because you fathered her spiritually.

If you’re just WATCHING her from afar:

She’s not yours.

But you feel her.

And you see what she doesn’t — that she’s unraveling in slow motion.

You might think you have no power.

But here’s what most men don’t know:

Spiritual leadership doesn’t require permission.

You don’t need to be in her bed to plant a sacred thought in her mind.

One moment.

One message.

One unshakable question — framed in clarity and love — can haunt her illusions forever.

A well-timed voice note.

A poetic text.

A calm message that slices through the noise.

Try:

“Do you think your future daughter would want this life?”

“What if all this chaos is just a test… to see who you’ll follow?”

“Do you miss the version of you that didn’t need applause?”

Then step back.

Let her feel it.

Let her sit in it.

Let her wonder why those words hit harder than a thousand likes.

Because you weren’t trying to “get” her.

You were trying to free her.

And that…

…is why she won’t forget you.

This is how MEN lead women out of chaos - not by dragging them…

…but by framing a reality too sacred to ignore.

When you become that frame

She’ll start to see everything differently.

 NEWS FLASH

How do you think you can become this responsible as a man for your own BEAUTIFUL woman, AMAZING daughter and also to YOURSELF without stepping up your game…?

Huh?

Listen - As a true man, there's no middle ground for you…

It's either you live your life with FULL LEGACY or you drop low like a piece of TRASH with a standing D*CK all to your name…

Sounds harsh?

C'mon - You should know better, I don't expect less from you.

Pro Hint: My next email should focus on how you guide your BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER from the chaos of social femininity.

And if you're already annoyed with me - It's okay NOT to reply to this email.

But - I know you still love me and you won't deny me my roses…🌹

Give it to me plenty (🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹) hahahaha.

Talk soon

Cleo