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Break the ice effortlessly (5 Step Method)
Can you walk up to any girl and spark up a conversation from nothing? Your words, like a siren's song drawing her in closer and closer.
This is a SKILL. Skills can be learned.
Maybe you’re not the best talker in regular social interactions. With the added pressure of a new and attractive girl – things quickly get out of hand.
You start to sweat, starting with your palms.
There are long drawn-out gaps of awkward silence.
Your opener is basic and dull (she’s heard it 1000 times).
I won’t twist the knife more than that, you get the picture.
Ready to learn this skill and start having deep and intriguing conversations with ANYONE?
My 5 step method is the perfect foundation for you to MASSIVELY improve your conversation game. (Stick around for a bonus…)
5 Steps To Break The Ice
The Approach - DON’T BE A DORK. Be honest and respectful, tell her she caught your eye. Share something specific about her that you found intriguing.
Building Connection - Be genuine, and show genuine interest in what she has to say. Keep the conversation light, playful, and confident. Show some of your sense of humor for an added bonus.
Creating Chemistry - 80/20 Rule Keep the focus 80% on her while also sharing bits about yourself. Your goal should be to get her to open up to you. This is NOT something you force. Try to steer her in that direction. Do this by making her feel comfortable.
Displaying Interest - Be a good listener, hold eye contact, and give lots of non-verbal signs that you’re listening and intrigued. Asking follow-up questions when necessary.
Wrapping Up - After 5-10 minutes take the lead and politely close the conversation. Let her know you enjoyed the conversation(Pro Tip: Give a specific example about something you talked about) and ask for her number/set up a future ‘date’.
You see it’s not all about scripts and templates. If I gave that to you it would be a train-wreck. Use these 5 steps as a guideline for your conversations.
Now, the only thing left to do is… PRACTICE! Don’t be afraid of rejection, it happens. Instead, study and learn why you got rejected – then improve.
Always the best,
Cleopatra
P.S.
This is only the beginning…
For some of you, this 5-step method will be enough improvement to satisfy you. But, for a select few – this will be the start of an amazing transformation.
If you’re the type of guy who wants to see astounding progress in a fraction of the time it would take you on your own, then this is for you.
Men have quite literally changed their dating lives and success with women overall with what you’re about to get access to.
I ask you, is this the beginning or the end?
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