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1 Root Rejection Cause For 99% Of Men
And it's not what you think it is.
When you think about it, rejection itself comes down to a simple 'yes' or 'no'.
You make some sort of advance...
And the woman either accepts or denies it.
She accepts? Keep going.
She denies? You've been rejected.
This starts with the first glance, before you even approach, and it continues all the way until you're in bed.
If you look at the way this works, the power is all in the woman's hands. She is the one making decisions about if things will go further... not you.
And that's NOT a good place to be.
The fastest way to reverse the decision, and gain the power to literally take things forward whenever you want is to eliminate your decision dependency.
What do I mean by this?
Well, if the root cause of all rejection is her decision to either accept or deny one of your plays, then you need to get rid of the problem at the root – or her decision, in its entirety.
How is this possible?
Well... if you are never making a "play" she has no decision to make. And you literally can't get rejection.
But if you never make a play, you'll never get anywhere, right?
OF COURSE.
The secret lies in making advances... plays... moves forward, whatever you want to call them, in a way that is so 'stealth', she doesn't even realize you're making them...
What I discovered is that there is a...
Perceptual Escalation Threshold
This is the point at which she realizes on a conscious level that you are escalating, and she is forced to decide.
It's like an alarm that goes off when she feels a certain level of pressure.
Operate above the threshold... and it's only a matter of time before you get shot down.
Fly below the radar...
And it's smooth sailing.
To date, nearly every pickup technique I've ever seen operates ABOVE the threshold, meaning women can consciously perceive your advance and decide "do I want this to continue or not?"
And every method of pick up that operates in this realm is subject to rejection or denial.
But if you keep your game below the threshold... she will not pick up on the fact that you are leading towards the bedroom, and she will not object...
Simple as that.
It's like when chefs boil frogs.
They don't crank up the heat before throwing the little guy into the water.
Why not?
He'll jump out..
Nor do they put him in the water and jack up the heat.
Instead, they turn the dial up ever so slowly and the frog has no idea the temperature of water is changing.
It's below the threshold, and the frog can't perceive the change that is occurring.
No escape is attempted and the frog is dinner.
All the best,
Cleopatra
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