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1 Guaranteed Way To Make Any Girl Like You
*Proven by science*
Allen Schiffenbauer and Steven Schiavo did an interesting little experiment.
They had a confederate (i.e. an ally of the experimenter who pretends to be a subject) sit either close to the subjects (2 feet), or far from the subjects (5 feet).
In addition, the confederate behaved in either a likable or unlikable fashion toward the subjects.
[If you have never taken a psychology class, the "subject" is the person who is participating in the experiment. Often, this is a college student.]
What they found was when the confederate behaved in a LIKABLE fashion, the subjects tended to LIKE the confederate MORE when the confederate sat CLOSER to the subjects than when the confederate sat farther away.
And when the confederate behaved in an UNLIKABLE fashion, the subjects tended to DISLIKE the confederate MORE when the confederate sat CLOSER to the subjects than when the confederate sat farther away.
Here Is What You Should Do
Based on the results of this experiment, this is what you should do if you want a girl to like you more.
If you are in a good mood and things are going well with a particular girl, then it would be to your benefit to get closer.
Sit a little closer.
Stand a little closer.
Or use body language techniques to decrease the psychological distance between the two of you — direct eye contact, an open body posture, and tilting your body or head towards her.
Touching works too. Touching is fantastic at creating intimacy and is very powerful.
On the other hand...
If things are going badly with a girl, then it might be best to keep your distance... minimize the damage until you are more on top of your game.
Boost Her Arousal - Boost Her Response
What we're talking about here is one of the many ways available that you can subtly boost physical arousal in women... and thus boost their emotional responses toward you.
Sit or stand closer to her, or touch her, and you will boost her arousal. This is good.
In addition, you become the object of her attention, because it's hard to ignore someone who is so close — thus fixing that arousal squarely on you. Which is exactly where you want it.
But make sure she likes you first.
Smile. Be happy. Get excited. Exude confidence and listen to what she says.
Then you can boost her like, turn it into really like, or maybe even love.
Just by getting a little closer.
All the best,
Cleopatra
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